You know, right now there is a lot of hype about Donald Trump and the possibility that he may become the next U.S. President.
Don’t worry, this is not a politically charged blog post. I’ve just made some observations that I thought I’d share since it is Friday – and you never know what you’re going to get on Featured Friday – but I digress. I have observed that some of Trump’s comments are, well, somewhat insulting to say the least. However, I’ve got to admit that it is refreshing to hear a “politician” or no, scratch that. Let’s start that sentence over. I’ve got to admit that it is refreshing to know what someone is straight up thinking. I mean, imagine if we all spoke our minds and shared our true views on things. How many of us would have as many friendships as we do? How many of us would be liked as much as we are? OR how many of us would still be employed? I’m serious! Think about it. If you were to tell the person beside you, or the person who has some authority over you, or even a potential client your true thoughts – would things go as well as you would hope? Maybe not. Ok, so maybe being honest is not such a great thing? Stay with me, you will soon see where I’m going with this. Being honest IS the right thing to do – always. Now, although I may not agree with the delivery, I have to give Trump credit for speaking his mind. I think the shocking thing for most people is what is actually on his mind – LOL.
But back to the point I was trying to make. Could you imagine how refreshing it would be for each of us if we were to all be completely or brutally honest with one another? Or would it? There are consequences for speaking your mind. We’ve seen it throughout the ages. When someone goes against the masses they stick out. They may be persecuted. They may be exalted. But there is usually some sort of consequence. But, there is a way to filter your thoughts before expressing them. The reason we have a “filter” is so we can think before we speak. There is a way to be honest but kind. This reminds me of the other night when I was watching the latest Cinderella movie (yes, I still watch fairy tales – you don’t?!?!) and the one part of the movie that stuck out for me was Cinderella’s mother’s last lesson to her daughter – be courageous and be kind.
Throughout the movie we saw the difficulties and unfair treatment Cinderella endured and her ability to stay courageous and kind were tested. She was separated from her family. She was made to be a servant in her own home. She was taken advantage of and called names. But she was courageous and kind throughout it all (YES, I know it was a movie, but my point is coming, stay with me) and in the end she triumphed. It takes courage to be able to tell someone your true opinion when it is not the most popular opinion. It takes strength to be kind in doing it.
So what’s this post about? Well, if I’m totally honest, I wanted to jump on the Trump train. Using Trump’s name in any kind of post on social media these days gets you more hits so there’s that – WHAT? I’M JUST BEING HONEST. But more importantly, to take the line from the Cinderella story – In everything you do – be courageous and be kind. You will be respected for it. You will be loved for it. Most importantly, you will be blessed for it. Remember, we are all fighting some sort of battle. The kindness you show towards someone today may be the one thing to keep them going. Seems extreme but it is so true. So in everything you do, please do it with kindness.
Have an amazingly, fantabulous weekend and remember to love yourself. When I wrote “love yourself” I meant that in the most sincere way possible not the “other” way – WHAT?! I’m being honest.
Believing in you,
The post Lessons from Donald Trump and Cinderella appeared first on Jen Slay.